50 Short Condolence Messages Inspired by Grief Experts

Expressing condolences can be challenging. Finding the right words to convey your sympathy and support during a time of loss can feel overwhelming. 

Here's a collection of 50 short condolence messages inspired by the insights of grief authors such as David Kessler, Megan Devine, Hope Edelman, Brene Brown and Dr. Alan Wolfelt. 

These messages range from simple expressions of sorrow to more specific sentiments tailored to different types of loss. 

Whether you are offering condolences for the loss of a loved one, a friend, or a colleague, we hope these messages provide a source of comfort and support during a difficult time.

• "My heart aches for you. I'm so sorry for your loss. Sending my deepest sympathies."
• "Sending you love and strength during this difficult time. Please know that I'm here for you."
• "Thinking of you and your family. Please don't hesitate to reach out if there's anything I can do to offer support."
• "Words can't express my sorrow. I'm here for you."
• "May peace and comfort find you in the days ahead."

(Inspired by Brené Brown's emphasis on acknowledging the pain of grief)

• "I was deeply saddened to hear about [Name's] passing . They will be truly missed."
• "My heartfelt condolences go out to you and your family as you mourn the loss of [Name]."
• "Sharing in your sorrow as you remember [Name]. May the happy memories bring you comfort."

(Inspired by Megan Devine's focus on practical support)

• "I'm here to listen if you need to talk or just be. A listening ear can go a long way during this time of grief."
• "Please don't hesitate to reach out if you need anything at all. I'm here for you, whether it's a phone call, a text message, or just someone to lean on."
• "Can I bring you a meal or help with errands this week? Sometimes practical help can make a significant difference during a tough time."

• "My heart breaks for you. I can't imagine what you're going through. Please accept my sincerest condolences."
• "I'm so sorry for your pain. Grief is a journey, and I'm here to walk alongside you every step of the way."
• “Your loss is felt deeply by all who knew [Name]. Their lasting impact will not be forgotten.”
• "Grieving takes time. Be gentle with yourself."

(Inspired by Alan Wolfelt's emphasis on the importance of memories in healing)

• "[Name] was a remarkable person , a beautiful soul . Their memory will live on in our collective hearts ."
• "I will always cherish the wonderful memories I have of [Name]."
• "Celebrating the beautiful life of [Name] and the profound impact they had on us all.”
• "The world has lost a bright light. [Name]'s impact will be felt for years to come."

• "Your love for [Name] was an inspiration. May their memory bring you strength during this challenging time.
• "I'm here to support you as you navigate this new chapter. Please know that you’re not alone.”
• "May the love you shared with [Name] forever fill your heart. Sending my deepest sympathy.”
• "Grieving your life partner will take time. Moving forward doesn't mean you've moved on."

• "There are no words to express the depth of your loss. My heart aches for you and your family. Please accept my heartfelt condolences."
• “There are no perfect words for this unimaginable loss. Just a promise to you that (Child's name) will never be forgotten.”
• “Sending my love and support to you and your family during this time of sorrow.”
• I'm so sorry this is happening to you. Hold their memory close to your heart and carry it with you always. 

• "I'm so grateful for the friendship we shared with [Name]. I'll miss their laughter and spirit dearly.”
• "There are no easy words for this hard time, dear friend. I'm here for you, always. We'll get through this together, one day at a time."
• "Remembering all the good times we shared with [Name]. May those happy memories bring you comfort.”

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• "May God grant you comfort and peace during this difficult time. You are in my prayers.”
• "Praying for you and your family. May [Name]'s soul rest in peace."
• “May your faith bring you strength and solace during this sad time. Trusting in God's love to carry you through.”
• When you lose someone you love, you gain an angel you know.

(Inspired on David Kessler's work on bearing the unbearable.)

• "While we grieve, let's also celebrate the beautiful life [Name] lived. Their positive memory will always be with us.”
• “Though [Name] is gone, their love will always be with you. Sending you hope and healing .”
• "Love never dies. [Name]'s spirit will forever be a part of you. Cherish the wonderful memories you made together.”

• Remember that personalization is key! Adding specific memories or shared experiences can make your short condolence message even more meaningful.
• Consider the relationship you have with the grieving person and their loved one when choosing your words.
• In a professional setting, keep your message concise and respectful.
• When you're struggling to find the right words, a simple "I'm so sorry for your loss" can go a long way .
• Offering specific help , such as assisting with funeral arrangements or providing a meal, can be a great way to show your support.
• A handwritten note or sympathy card can add a personal touch to your condolences .
• If you're sending a text message or posting on social media , be mindful of your audience and keep your message respectful.
• Words of comfort and emotional support can make a significant difference during the grieving process .
• Let the recipient know that you're there for them, both now and in the future. Your support system can help them through this trying time .